When a parent is unfaithful, the fallout often extends far
beyond the couple—it can leave a lasting imprint on their children,
shaping how they view trust, intimacy, and their own worth. In this
episode, we’re joined by author and former therapist Melissa
Macomber who has spent decades exploring the often-overlooked
impact of parental infidelity on children, particularly as they
grow into adulthood. We discuss how this form of betrayal can
subtly or profoundly influence adult relationships, sense of
safety, emotional resilience, and faith.
Together, we unpack the factors that can make the impact of a
parent's affair more or less damaging—such as secrecy, loyalty
conflicts, and emotional availability—and explore what it takes to
break free from inherited patterns. Whether you're navigating the
aftermath yourself or supporting someone who is, this conversation
offers insight, compassion, and practical tools for healing and
growth.
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now, check out our Fully Alive Marriage
course.
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Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol is a weekly podcast dedicated to helping men, women, and couples experience good health, loving relationships and joyful spirituality that Jesus came to bring.